I've been locked...My wife is back home but last night she told me everything she told me last Sunday is not true. She told me she loved me and wanted to come home. She said she hated to be on her own and the only person she wanted was me. Now 1 1/2 weeks later, ie last night, she said she needed me for support and was an emotional mess and only said those things because the OM had messed with her emotionally and I was the only one there but that she still has feelings for the OM. So basically I was deceived and lied too. She said she didn't mean to lie but she thought she wanted me but realizes she doesn't want me. She is going out with some more co-workers this Saturday. And she keeps adding more and more, now she says she is probably NOT coming home Saturday night at all and will probably stay with some of the people over night because they will probably be partying all night. WTF??? She is 44 yrs old, with children and grandchildren and now she wants to party like a 20yr old while I stay at home.
She says she will do as she pleases, etc. I'm still in shock. She goes from being all over me being, kissing me, making love, saying she loves me last week, to this 360 change for no reason, and I'm suppose to act like it's ok, etc. I can't handle it, I'm sorry