ILY's & ML...no fights..this is a strange S! Help!

[nephartiti]

Hey Ginger.

Maybe your H is overwhelmed with responsibilities?

I don't know. My H is starting to come around more, but it seems that he hits a point where he is overwhelmed with anxiety and has to get out. He seems fine till the kids start acting up or if I have to do something work related (I work at home). He is ok if I tell him the kids are great. If I say S2 had an asthma attack yeterday, he gets anxious. It's weird. I was just thinking maybe your H needs that escape from the every day stuff. Heck, wouldn't that be nice if someone else did all the hard stuff and we just had to come for dinner, snuggle, ML, and then leave? My H says he is thinking of coming home, but I just don't see it happening. He will nevert be comfortable weith reality.

BTW, I am almost positive an OW is involved in my sitch, but my H stubbornly still denies it. I doubt my instincts.

I wish I could give more insight. I'm just as confused as you are. All I know is that there is NO way to know what is in their heads. Don't drive yourself crazy trying to figure it out.

BTW, most of us would just about do anything to hear an ILY from our H.