Yup...this sex dynamice has always been there.

We fight...
He sulks, so do I. I tiptoe round him. I try to initiate conversation and make it up to him even if he's the one that has blown up. I feel like he is ignoring me for a while till he is ready to reconnect with me. He comes back on to me physically and we ML and we rarely discuss the fight.
I'm a talker...he is not.
I'm keen for sex...I just don't think it's appropriate right now. I havn't got the guts to stand up for myself and then deal with his rejected behaviour (which to me looks a lot like being sulky...then I feel awful)

Last edited by CaseyMooCow; 10/18/07 04:16 AM.

CMC

Me: 34
Him: 36
M: 10yrs
T: 17yrs
D: 6yo
S: 29/01/2007
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