I so knwo what you mean about the "you're too sexy" thing.
My h still does that, even after admitting that he has recently become 'just a little bit more than friends' with someone else.
F me....does he think he's so hot that I'll lap up anything he offers me? No...I don't really think he thinks that. I think however, that he feels so guilty for hurting me that this is the only way he knows of how to make me feel better. The problem is that it's CONFUSING!!! I need the space.
If you want to check out my sitch, I have two threads. One is my initial thread which I have now abandoned but it's got the original reasons for S. The current thread is called "Time for healing without closing the door" ( I can't remember how to link)
Please read...I suspect our sitches might be very similar wrt to the sex part. I call it cake eating - but I don't think he thinks of it that way.