Divorced, but still hoping for a miracle

[about2bdvorced]

Let her twist in the wind on the medical bill. Lenders don't pay much heed to a medical bill chargeoff on a credit report anyways, though it does drive down your FICO. If the med bill's in her name only, forget it. Don't let her pull you into an argument! Only communicate with her regarding vital child related issues...

Her friends are spying. Leave a strange car or two in the driveway for a few days...hell, rent one if you have to. Give Ms. Nosy-Pants something to see...