Joie,
I wish I had the answer to those questions. My DD19 has told me she doesn't know if she ever wants to get married...

DD16 has confronted H about his affair and told him how wrong she thought he was. All he could do was ask her who told her that. She told him we lived in a small town and word got around. She said you just answered my question because if it wasn't true then you wouldn't be so worried who told me.

The WAS just doesn't get the whole picture. It not only affects the couple it affects the children also. My H tried to say it had nothing to do with them, he would always love them. Yes, that is true I'm sure, but what is he saying to them? Is he telling them that, hey down the road, your husband my decide after 20 years that he isn't "happy" and he needs to get out. When will the WAS wake up?

Sorry to make this so long and I didn't answer your question....




Life's challenges are not supposed to paralyze you, they're supposed to help you discover who you are.
-- Bernice Johnson Reagon