It is just such a copout not to say "I just dont know", "I cant talk about it".
I assume you meant it *is* a copout to say those things. I bet, though, that she's doesn't know and doesn't feel able to talk about it. I think the email is a good idea. It'll also give her a chance to gather her thoughts without pressure and respond.
Originally Posted By: CVA
Who is immature? Who is controlling?
Um, all of us? To an extent, anyway. Do you remember Hegel's master/slave? Who has the power? But the big question is, who has the strength (the internal as opposed to external power)? The master can't be a master without the slave, so who really has the control there?
Hee hee, pretty soon everyone's going to wonder how we got from "The Odyssey" to Hegel. This is going to be one well-read group.
Originally Posted By: CVA
the fact that I am putting this much energy into this is mind boggling right now. The ONLY reason I am doing it is for the sliver of hope to save our family and spare our children a life that most certainly will be less secure and fulfilling and as a result damaging.
Really? Is it all about the kids now? You're totally done with W, done with limbo, done with waiting to see which way she goes? If so, good for you, my friend. Or are you still mad? (48 hours.)
Originally Posted By: CVA
Made plans to go to dinner tomorrow and go Stalk, I mean talk to some hotties.
Hey CVA, when talking to a friend of mine today I told her a bit about your sitch, and she's interested! (Of course she's also married with four kids, so you'd be a houseful! )
Originally Posted By: CVA
Probably will go out Fri night to in order not to be here when SIL is here with her kids. It is too painful to be around my house while inlaws are here and everyone plays like it is all OK.
Ouch. Yeah, I get that. Good for you for getting out. The house movement sounds good, too. Are you going to send the email about that?
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