789, I need a prepared response so I dont go off the deep end and essentially hand his balls back to him ripped to shreds.
sounds extreme, but hey, I know me. I have a snarky/sarcastic/bitter/pissy/angry side that can come out when I am feeling vulnerable and yeah, tomorrow when he asks that, I will be.
honestly, if he asks, my response will likely be "as well as can be expected" and leave it at that. normally when he asks how I am, I say "great", or "fine", but tomorrow we would both know that was a total lie. so I will be upbeat when I say it, but I'm not going to make it seem like I'm tickled at where our marriage is on its 10th anniversary.
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"Courage doesn't always roar. Sometimes courage is that little voice at the end of the day that says, 'I'll try again tomorrow.'"