I agree with GD - hold off on the dating. Someone that is nice to you, compliments you, and maybe will even give you a kiss goodnight is such a comforting thought right now, but avoid it if you can. I've thought about finding a date too, but first I know it is way too early and second I know that it would only be a band-aid for the situation. Not to mention I watched a friend date only months after his D and it turned out to be a rebound. All of us watching knew that, but he needed to find out for himself. And finally, since I'm such an expert ;\) it won't help your chances of reconciliation with your W. In fact it could make things much worse.

Me: 37
H: 35
M: 6
T: 8
2 cats, 1 dog, 0 kids
S: 09/10/07
D started 9/21/07 (I stalled)
Piecing: 11/9/07

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