"Part of me is excited (finally- a house I like AND it could be leased) and part of me is scared sh!tless that if they do come back with something favorable and I go for it, that it would be the end of the marriage. OR it could be the beginning of my H coming to his senses- that would be the gamble."
You getting a house would NOT be the end of the M. He will get out if he wants to regardless of whether you buy a house. He will work like crazy to get you back if that's what he wants. So follow YOUR road and do what works for you. If it stirs him up that's gravy.
HUGS!
Me (36) H (42) M (12) S-8 D-5 SS-18 D Day (PA) 12/02 S 10/03 R 1/03 S again 9/07 I choose Joy.
