Now We're Separated... Learning My Way

[Gingersnap]

I have some input on the dating thing. Be careful and take it slow - work on yourself.

I caught myself saying this to my bf the other night

"I don't need H to come home to have self-worth...(good so far, huh?). Do you know how many men would die to have a W like me?"

WHAT? In other words, I clearly view my self worth primarily in relation to how a man treats me. This is a huge problem that I obviously need to deal with. My worth comes from God alone. And I have value whether or not ANY man finds me worthy.

Make sure you're not seeking validation from others. If you are looking for self worth in other people they will always let you down. They are not strong enough or faithful enough to validate your worth.

HTH and best of luck!