You hit the nail on the head. Detach.

It was her decision. If it happens again make sure it's yours next time.

I am so sorry GISH. I hope she comes to her senses soon - not only for your sake but also for your son's. Surely she can see this isn't fair to him?

Saffie

Saffie
me 46
H 46
M in 1986
D20,D18,S16,D13
H's A 01/05 to 07/06
H recommitted to M 07/06
renewed vows 09/06
Going from strength to strength