What I've done after she told me she was leaving, was to be there to support her emotionally as a friend. I made sure she could talk to me and I am geniunely interested in everything she has to say. I have NOT stopped that since she's come back. She said previously in the marriage I didn't make her feel important. So when she said she was leaving I had a wake up call and put her first. That has not stopped since she's come back. That's why it's so confusing. It's not like I stopped being attentive just because she came back. I continued to be there to talk, etc.
Maybe she came back too soon - I know not for you but for her.
GISH - please calm down - we know OM is not interested in commitment. I know it really really hurts but it's time to retrench and go back into replay. DBING tactics ahoy - read the book again for pointers.
Saffie
Saffie me 46 H 46 M in 1986 D20,D18,S16,D13 H's A 01/05 to 07/06 H recommitted to M 07/06 renewed vows 09/06 Going from strength to strength
That's what she thinks Saffie, she thinks she came back too soon. But that was something she decided, she was the one who was hysterically crying that she hated it and wanted to come back. What can I do about that? It was too soon for her but it was her choice and I feel I'm being blamed for it. I'll just try to detach
