I think a lot of people stop posting once they get to piecing and so that makes the amount of healed M's not seem as many.
my h feels quite threatened by this site. it was only at the weekend that he admitted to me that he thought it was all about getting rid of your spouse and supporting one another - I can see that we are going to have to work on our communicayion skills. LOL
I think that came out of his guilty conscience. but I can imagine that once things start looking better one tends to spend time again with the spouse and the 'need ' for this place diminishes.
I came here with my M intact but o/standing issues which is probably why I have stayed. Also I have not been here that long compared to many and the memories I have of the really bad days are not associated with this place. here has brought me comfort and friends. it has made me laugh and cry both from despair and from happinness.
The good stories are so needed.
saffie
Saffie me 46 H 46 M in 1986 D20,D18,S16,D13 H's A 01/05 to 07/06 H recommitted to M 07/06 renewed vows 09/06 Going from strength to strength