What I've done after she told me she was leaving, was to be there to support her emotionally as a friend. I made sure she could talk to me and I am geniunely interested in everything she has to say. I have NOT stopped that since she's come back. She said previously in the marriage I didn't make her feel important. So when she said she was leaving I had a wake up call and put her first. That has not stopped since she's come back. That's why it's so confusing. It's not like I stopped being attentive just because she came back. I continued to be there to talk, etc.
