She brought by some of the papers today for the divorce... really not what I was hoping for. I asked her if she was sure and she said that she'd done a lot of thinking and was sure.
Did you ask her why she was sure? ie: What actual concrete, unchangable, rational reasons she has, other than "feelings"?
'cause feelings never stay the same. After all, she married you, and by doing so, essentially declared that she loved you and her feelings would never change.
If they can change from back then, they can change from where they are now, too.
[if you do decide to talk to her along those lines, make sure you are prepared with something on how they might change, though. a la "the 5 love languages" or marriagebuilders stuff.
Last edited by Dom R; 10/17/0709:14 PM.
My current status: june 2006. Wife ran out and filed D. Finalized Jan 11, 2010, after 12.5 years M. 3 wonderful sons caught in the middle
