Hey, girl, I actually changed my log-in name. Had given out the website to some others & "Cadesmom" was a little too obvious.

Just got home from the hospital -- had a hysterectomy on Monday.

Visit w/ H was wonderful. He's wonderful!! Got some beautiful flowers today and he actually had sent me some a month or so ago at work w/ a teddy bear that said it was "preloaded" w/ hugs from him. He has definitely come around and I think things are going to be ok for us.

I'm really sorry you & H are still having such issues. I remember the last time you posted, it almost seemed like it was to the point of one of you maybe leaving. I would guess that it has obviously gotten better, but there are still issues that need resolving.

Do you think maybe he's still depressed? Is he on an AD? I can't remember.

What are the "fights" usually about? Just him thinking he needs more sex & attention? How old are the kiddos now?


Me: 38
H: 35
S4, S5, S10
Bomb 01/07
Wanted D - nothing would change his mind
Numerous A's prior to D bomb; EA prior/during D bomb
Piecing 04/07
Deployed for a year 05/07
Still Piecing 2010
M 11 yrs 05/10