So I think things are getting worse.

Yesterday morning W texted me and said "Good morning to you and the girls. See you at Lunch"

I texted back.. after sometime and said "Back at you!!"

I saw her at D's school and acted as if. I told her she looked nice.. asked how her day was etc. She seemed very depressed.

Met her at the mall later that evening to get D's costumes. When we went to leave, I could tell she was upset about something. I asked if she wanted to go to dinner with us and she stated that she had too much other stuff to do. (That is shocking... she complains I don't let her see the kids enough).

We didn't hug at school.. we didn't hug at mall.

She called last night to talk to the D's. D's and I were having fun. I asked how the rest of her day went and she said OK. No texts or anything after.

No texts this morning.

Dropped D's and stuff off (it's her night) and really nothing. We said to have a nice day to each other.

As I left, I put stuff in her car and she had stepped out to say thanks and lock her vehicle.

Nothing since.. she usually calls while taking oldest D to school or when she gets off work. None of that.

I told her last night that I got her a sweetest day card (we had joked about it on Sunday and agreed to get each other cards) I told her she didn't have to give me one.. she sounded OK with that.

I left the card in the bag with the D's stuff.

The card said "Only you" and when you open it "Always You" and then "Happy Sweetest Day" at the bottom. Seemed to be the only one that fit. I just put my name on the inside.. no explanation or written word.

I'm feeling more detached from her, but I'm worried that we are going backwards. Not sure what to do now.