In case my post came across in the wrong way I didn't mean you should be punitive to your W.

I just agree that she doesn't have a firm grip on what life would be like if things do change. Plus she will get that "space" that WAS need to clear their heads.

But your working on it, in your own time.


Me: 30
EX-H: 37
DD: 5
Separated 6/07. MC for months, EX-H quit MC.
Divorce Final 8/14/08.
Trying to move on with new life.