So...W got home last night. was nice and cordial and has been that way all day today. No R talk or anything, just dinking around together as always.
But, I thought this was rather strange. I noticed when I got the bomb that the following weeks she was really dressing up and looking nice going to work. May have just been me noticing more, but it seemed she was putting much more effort into it. She's still making herself look nice, but I dont think it's nearly the same primped out effort like before.
And...today, she is spending much time 'organizing' stuff. Cleaning out pantry, fixing a few things. Sort of like 'nesting'. Not sure what this means but it definitely is a little different behavior. She would sometimes do this on weekends, but maybe because she was gone, she is using this time to do some organizing. I have also been helping out a ton more around the house. So when she got home last night, there was no cleaning, laundry, dishes, etc. to do because I had this place spotless. Maybe she's using her time that she would spend doing this instead of the routine work...
So..hope to prolong conversation on moving out as long as possible. She did give me a nice hug when she got in last night, but didnt really want any contact this morning. I guess that's a backslide on my part for trying...dang!
She was very curious when she got back about the 'party' I had saturday night. Had all the neighbors over. She said that wasnt really like me (validating a 180?). And this morning, I left to go work out. She was very curious about that as well, asking me before I left and when I got back about it. More 180 validation. All stuff for 'Me'...I love it. I'm glad she's noticing. Hopefully the seeds of doubt are building. If I'm helping out a ton, taking care of myself and having fun, getting along well with her, why would she want me to leave?
