Sol and Lo, You can't let anyone influence your decision about fighting for your marriage. They can tell you that you are crazy for fighting, but until someone has gone through it they don't know what they would do. At the end of the day the people who think we are crazy go home to their nice cozy families, we want to be able to do the same thing. Keep fighting as long as you have fight left in you. Only you can make that decision.
Life's challenges are not supposed to paralyze you, they're supposed to help you discover who you are. -- Bernice Johnson Reagon
