Bummer. I'm sorry to hear about your sitch, but honestly, you have only been separated for less than a month now. I wouldnt expect anything to happen right away. Try and enjoy the space that you have made for yourself. Meet some new people. Pick up an new hobby. Put some space between you and her. You want her to see the new man that you are becoming and like it. You want her to see that she can fall in love with you again. Be patient and smile.
Me-46;W-42 Together 23 yrs Married 16 S11 S8 S6 02/10/03 Her 1st affair 10/01/06 Sep Bomb 01/01/07 Sep Begins 03/09/07 Her 2nd affair