RJ, how about a less mental/intellectual answer than that, okay?
Picture your H flexing his biceps or whatever he does, and how do you FEEL when he does that? Not "what do you think," but what is your visceral reaction?
What I said earlier: does he not deserve recognition because of his neglect (past or present) of you?
Does it seem "pure and noble" to admire nature but not human bodies (especially up close bodies as opposed to Michelangelo's David or something).
Are his biceps too REAL as opposed to the fantasies you're more comfortable with?
