Originally Posted By: goinginsanehere
Thanks for the feedback. I am honestly NOT trying to push her to be defensive...I guess I am letting my insecurities and jealousies get the best of me. I just still so unsure and hurt. I am sorry if I am coming across as a jerk or azz. I guess I just need to shut up then about anything she says ????

How you feel is understandable. How you react is hurting your cause. When she says something that will get the standard knee jerk reaction stop and think about what you want to say. Say nothing and think about it some more. Time to read DR again.