I'd prefer that you don't, but I don't have any expectation that you won't. And that's okay."

okay, with my back pain and stress, I cannot for the life of me figure out if your saying you don't expect him to see OW or you are expecting him to see OW with the kids and your okay with that.

what were you saying? too many negatives in the same sentence...brain overload!!!!!!! AAAAAAAAAH.

okay, I'm okay now.

I think on the comment I would have left it at... In my opinion it's best that the kids have the least amount of confusion, meaning I would rather them not witness any OWs unless we are officially D or S.

I'm glad you were able to have a decent convo without any craziness attached to it. Also glad to hear he wants to spend more time with the kids too.

Me 33 H 34 S9 S3
M 6 yrs (2gether 11 yrs)
EA/PA 1/2006
DB 5/2006
H wants D 6/2006
H wants ME 8/2006
H "said" PA/EA over 8/2006
H erased OW off phone! 2/2007

"It is far better 2 choose humility & change oneself, than 2 wait in vain trying 2 chang someone else."