I wouldn't say that you are a jerk or ass. We've all been hurt so badly, but most of the time they don't care. Pity will not bring them home. An attractive, strong, and caring person will. I believe you can sometimes discuss it with her, but don't be so confrontatiional.



Life's challenges are not supposed to paralyze you, they're supposed to help you discover who you are.
-- Bernice Johnson Reagon