Okay GISH,
You are pushing her, you have to stop. She didn't contact him, he contacted her and she doesn't sound like she wanted him too. I agree that she shouldn't be talking to him if she told she wouldn't, but don't be so accusing. She is telling you she would never go back to him, what more could you ask for. I wish my H would tell me that. Tell her you realize she didn't contact him, but it still bothers you. Tell if she could avoid contact with him, it would make you feel better. Please don't push her away. Jealousy can kill a relationship. I know she caused you to be jealous, but we still have to be careful.

I'm sorry if I sound harsh that's not my intention. I'm just worried about you.

Last edited by Yoyowife; 10/17/07 06:57 PM.



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