Thank you for the words of wisdom about apologies. I have been emailing myself notes from work to home all day on how to revamp mine. I want it as effective as possible, not to be manipulative, but to try and ensure that he sees what I'm trying to say. Like you say, looking at it from the other persons POV. I don't want it to be just words, even though I know that is how it will be perceived. For that reason I am specifically asking him not to respond. I don't want to hear it and don't think I can handle hearing any response right now. Mostly I just want to let him know that I'm sorry for the stupid things I've done and let him think on it without the pressure of having to say anything. If he does, well that's his prerogative.
My H and his buddies were actually the "cool" ones in our local gaming world. Most of them are married to pretty normal women. So they not only knew what a woman was, they got involved with one. Scary for some.
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Me: 37 H: 35 M: 6 T: 8 2 cats, 1 dog, 0 kids S: 09/10/07 D started 9/21/07 (I stalled) Piecing: 11/9/07
