Hi,
I had a IC session this morning. After we talked a bit about the usual stuff, how I was doing, how H was doing, how we were doing, etc., he commented that in all his years of counseling he has never seen anyone so committed/resolved to making a R work after infidelity, especially in the face of my H's ambivalence. He actually made me feel better about everything.

I thought, well I have ... everyone here on this board. So cudos to all of us for our commitment, resolve, courage, strength ... you name it!

Cheers!