I would like to know the answer to that too but there probably isn't one. I dont like being in a "holding pattern" either but since there's nothing I can do about it I am GAL. At least I'm trying too. Sara told me a few days ago and it has stuck with me..."do what you have to do not what you feel like doing".
LuvMyHusband Me: 41 H: 43 ch: 3 M: 7+ T: 10+ Bomb: EA 8/07, A over phone/net 10/07 Seperated: 9/07 H ended A/EA with OW again on 1/2008 Reconsile: 3/26/2008, H admitted PA
