Where do I go fromhere?

[saffie]

I think it is a BIG positive she is checking in with you at work etc and talking about things.Personally I withdraw when not feeling good with my H.

I would let her come to you about any R stuff at the moment as she is talking and being friendly. Were things a bit slow on the ML side before all this or were they ok? Don't answer that if you don't want - I know it's personal. Things had slowed down that way for H and I. 20yrs of M, several kids (4), just assumed these things happened. It was wrong to negelect this side of things. We have started 'dating' again. Nights to the cinema, theatre, sneaking weekends away, lunch dates etc. It all helps with the involvement and investment in one another.

We also talk about the future together and things we can look forward to when they leave so that we can see it as a positive as well as a negative.

DBust your butt off - it can only help. Your signs look promising.

Saffie