Piecing. It's like a fork in the Road (which way)?

[NikB]

jak - I gree with CL, if you're going to make this work H needs to contribute too. I'm also glad to see the restlessnes and unwillingness to back to how things were.

Obviously I am not so good at getting that across (or my H just chose not to contribute)... but I think you've still got a good shot at it.

I'd work on a way to tell him very directly that you are not happy with the M right now, and that he needs to step up and help contribute. If you have some ideas for how to do that, great. If you don't or if he rejects them, ask him for his ideas.