Where do I go fromhere?

[smichael]

Thanks Saffie.

As I mentioned in my original post, she hasn’t been back to the same Borders bookstore since her “friend” quit about 3 weeks ago. I don’t know if this has made her depressed or not but I imagine it’s left her in somewhat of a funk. Since then she has really started to look for a job and actually taken steps to get back in school. I assume she hasn’t had contact with her “friend”since he left but I don’t really know for sure. She does call me several times a day to talk about the kids or her job hunts etc. She always did this before the bomb as well. Should I take this as a positive or just old habit? How can I check how she is feeling without crossing over to the relationship conversation? Or, should I just let her initiate any such talk. I appreciate your feedback and insight.