WTH is wrong with me? Why do I feel so bad for him? And what does that say about how badly he wants out?
I dont think there's anything wrong with you feeling bad for him.
Nor do I think that it indicates "how badly he wants out". I think it's more like he just grabbed what was available. But he's probably not planning on living there permenantly, anyway.
Plus, there's the factor that men usually just dont care as much about that sort of thing when in "living alone" mode. What are "intolerable living conditions" to you, could just go unnoticed by him.
My current status: june 2006. Wife ran out and filed D. Finalized Jan 11, 2010, after 12.5 years M. 3 wonderful sons caught in the middle
