Glad you found me. I think the answer may be somewhere in the middle about putting some money away. I really need to act "as if" I'll not be moving home whne I return. I can't see it happening. I've been out for over a year now, and her last email was the usual "my position and feelings on our marriage is the same as it has been for the past several years". I won't roll over, but..this has not changed one bit from last August 06
