Thanks, OT. Have the book in my shopping cart at Amazon. Need to find two more to qualify for free shipping.

Read most of the 5LL. Agreed, not a big fan of the writing "style."

Torch, I do have my moments. Keep chipping away. Last couple of days have been particularly good. Starting to feel like I'm over the hump. I know in the past after a few days, I'd start to get the urge to "scratch" the R itch. Not there now. Hmmmmmm, detachment? Mebbe. I was once a geek myself. Loved D and D. Thinking about looking for a group to play with via meetup.com or via local gaming store. Always been worried about getting in with a group of dweebs who've never touched a girl. \:\)

Maybe we can have crowns or something made. Plus, regarding backsliding, someone's got to provide a bad example for everyone on the boards, right ;\)

One thing on apologies that I found effective from Mort Fertel was to think of things from the other's POV. How did your actions make them feel. It's not about your intentions, but about how your actions were perceived and received by your S.

BD


My latest

Me: 36
W: 35
2 D: 9 and 5
T: 16 years
M: 12
10/4/06: Bomb
10/5/06: Ended A
4/22/07: ILYBNILWY

I'm a beautiful butterfly.