Jak, Is how you and H spend time recreation together a R topic you two can have? This is more of a friendship type of topic that isn't threatening.
You two are in a rut, and you want to try different things, so you two can enjoy your time together.
Before the dancing, I can remember my W and I went to movies most weekends. It became a rut, and boring. I was so ready for a change, when my W asked me to go dancing one evening, three years ago.
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