Jak,
Is how you and H spend time recreation together a R topic you two can have? This is more of a friendship type of topic that isn't threatening.

You two are in a rut, and you want to try different things, so you two can enjoy your time together.

Before the dancing, I can remember my W and I went to movies most weekends. It became a rut, and boring. I was so ready for a change, when my W asked me to go dancing one evening, three years ago.

CL


CL 53 W 54
M 20 yrs.
03'-09' Separation + Old Patterns + GAL
10-14' Piecing

"The Master allows things to happen. She shapes events as they come."

----Tao Te Ching