VS, Larry has given you somve very good advice! I certainly found that my H did not have a conscience at the beginnning, it was all about him and what made him happy. At one time I told him that he was destroying our family and everyone was miserable. His reply was I have to be happy too. He seems to be slowly coming out of his fog, very slowly. It's been a year for me.
Yoyo
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