Max, I know where you are coming from, I thought for the most part my wife was happy with our marriage for 10 years and then, at least in my eyes "Boom" she tells me she wants a divorce. We were separated for around 6 months with the over all comments from her that it was over and never gonna happen.
To make a long story short, I vented in here constantly and for the most part left her alone. During this time nothing changed. In about a week or two span I had many people tell me that had seen her recently and she was starting to tell people that we were divorcing and that it was her idea. Right about the end of this week spand on a Monday night we talked and it was the same old crap how she was done and gone about us. That same week on Friday she came to my apartment and was really quiet, after about 2 hours she asked me to come spend the night, been here ever since and that was about 7-8 weeks ago.
So my only real advice is that you don't push, don't ask, start GAL and when it comes to her, ignore what she says and does, just vent here.


M 41
W 33
S8
S17
Bomb 3/11/07
S 3/28/07
New beginning? 8/31/07