found spouse "chatting" w/ OW online last night. They were discussion dept stores. She told me about it and said "it's not like we aren't going to talk"...in my mind that's EXACTLY what "it's like"
I know this cannot go on but I also know that if I "demand" anything spouse will go into defensive mode...it has to be her idea.
I have a shovel and I'm not afraid to use it. Stubby
