YE, the sex...which I "played along," the last time...its getting kinda old for me...hence my last R talk w/ him..... The next two weeks he will be pretty much in & out on btrips...So usually when he is away and gone from both me & OW ..he tends to do his REAL thinking, which is why I said what I said before he left again...
He really needs this time alone to think... And I feel like I cant wait much longer... Seriously guys..if I had the $ right now..I would go file today....
Seriously Chicki, if u had the money? Really? Why file, just act as if u are, then its only a piece of paper as everyone keeps saying. Separate the emotional D from the Legal D as Homer says (not so eloquently I might add). Just assume its over, stop giving him sex or anything else baby man "wants" to satisfy his juvenile needs. Let him pay for it if you are really at that point, how can this concept backfire. In fact it might even work.
Ok, now something about "those who live in glass houses shouldn't throw stones!"
C
Me: 46 Wife: 39 D: 13 S: 11, 9, 7 Bomb 3.2.07, Sep Same Day, D papers 11.1.07 Current Status - Wants to take me through Discovery, I will go to prison first.
I have printed this thread and will read through it. But I don't know when... I will try and find some spare time tonight and/or Thur/Fri. Then Sat Sweetheart has scheduled a new dog visit first thing in the morning...so things mayget busy from there...I just don't know.