Well since last Thursday she's grown a good bit more distant. I'm trying to figure out if this is routine pull back after a few steps forward or if she's getting distant for other reasons. It seems strange in one regard because she was getting friendlier and we were really reconnecting. Then again the pullback is something the WAW will do after some forward progress.
I know she's reading the 5 love languages ever so slowly and I am wondering if she's feeling pressure as she reads it. I've tried to be understanding but there are expectations I have that I still am struggling to manage. Why is it since last Thursday she's stopped giving hugs and our conversations have become very limited? Yet she's stepped up a little her requests of me, mainly things that would in essence be her love language items, words of affirmation and acts of service. Is she testing me?
Well I don't know and I'm struggling with patience and the whole being friends thing right now. Yet I push myself forward and try the best I can to keep a happy face and attitude.
Last edited by catfan; 10/17/0703:12 PM.
If we really want to love, we must learn how to forgive. - Mother Theresa
