Not slamming you here but H isn't keeping you in limbo, you are helping him keep you in limbo by being intimate with him! He makes empty promises, there is the intimacy thing but yet he cannot make a clear decision and he doesn't have to because you keep giving in to his wants.
Thats the first step. See where this leads. Of course if he runs back to OW and never looks back...file away. He is just leading you and probably her too, on.
See if any atty's will take a smaller retainer fee to get started and let you pay the balance after. I found several that understood the sitch and were willing to work with me if need be. How about a small loan? or Credit Card?
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Me: 30 EX-H: 37 DD: 5 Separated 6/07. MC for months, EX-H quit MC. Divorce Final 8/14/08. Trying to move on with new life.
