How does he seem worried? Did you text back and forth some more?

It's great that you turned him down. Now go do things for you. I never here of you doing things that are for yourself and not everyone else.

Please don't ask him if he wants to talk about anything R related as it is concidered persuing at this point.
Yes he said he apologized and thats it, now he is waiting for you to cave. Don't cave and start asking him to come over. Let him persue you. If he doesn't then you are not loosing anything you really didn't have in the first place.

I think it is bothering him that you are not begging all the time for his attention and now he has to figure out how he is going to deal with reality.

JAK

You don't get to choose how you're going to die. Or when, you can only decide how you're going to live now. ~Joan Baez