Well last night I talked to my W about the finances. She sent me an email about spliting up our checking account and having me pay for our apartment and she will contribute a little. I sent her an email back asking if she could give a little more because we got the apartment together with the intention of having both of our salaries would pay for the expences. We talked after that conversation for a little while until she stopped texting me. I asked if I could come up and see her for the weekend but her mother is going to visit her this weekend so she said that it will have to be another time. I guess that is good, that she is telling me that it is okay to see her and that we can spend some time together.