Maybe the steps he is talking about are some he found somewhere? marriagebuilders? one of the various reconciliation books? or maybe he wants to go back to the 'dating' phase or 'getting to know you' phase. I don't know. Maybe you should ask him so that you are both working in the same direction. I can't see that it would hurt to ask him what the steps are so that you know where you are and can help with the process.

Saffie

Saffie
me 46
H 46
M in 1986
D20,D18,S16,D13
H's A 01/05 to 07/06
H recommitted to M 07/06
renewed vows 09/06
Going from strength to strength