Detach Agent99.. detach. It's the only advice I can give.

I got (in a nutshell) "I'll probably end up alone and miserable but it's better than being with you" not long ago.

I saw the room H rented when he left briefly last year and it was really bad. House was OK but the room was awful (the cat litter box was even in the bathroom he was renting!).

You detach or you let it eat away at you... your choice.

Me 35, H 38; Together 13.5 yrs, M 7
Bomb 1 10/07/06
Sep'd 1/14/07 - 4/15
Piecing: 4/07 - 9/07
Bomb 3 10/11/07: Never loved you, let's separate
2/08 slowly improving
7/08 Piecing (7/25/08 rings back on!!)
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