NikkiB #21

[NikB]

First things first I know I haven't checked in on lots of you in awhile and I'm sorry! I will catch up soon. Just dealing with my own re-mess at the moment.

Thanks Dave, Julie, ST.

Julie
Good reminder, thanks. I can be sooo hard on myself.

ST
Ah thank you for clarifying on the moving out. I do need to get real legal advice on that (more in a minute).

I think he's gonna be quite shocked when me moving out doesn't instantly make him happy. Although he has said a few times "I'll probably just end up alone and miserable" - so maybe he sees it some.

I haven't actually asked him about moving into the other room. I kinda feel like *I* need to take action. Any attempt to ask him to move there would just come off as manipulation, time to just take care of me.

Unfortunately all the nice stuff I got for our master bedroom totally won't work in the spare room. The carpet color alone is so far off it would look awful, plus there's no room for a King size bed. But, I have some ideas and started on it a bit today (also more in a minute). It'll be a nice room for me for now, and I figure it's a start on a guest room for my new place if I do move.

I'm so sorry to hear about your back!! I hope it feels better very soon. If you can be at the computer long enough you'll have to read my L adventures... nightmare!! I do plan to call around since I've already gotten conflicting advice.