I sort of think its that notion where you can either fight for what you think is right or fight for your marriage. If I fight for what I think is right and stay in my house, it's going to be a big fight, she's going to move out, buy a place, and try and dominate the kids, and it will be a battle from there on out I think. If I agree to leaving, it will be much more pleasant between us and I think it's more likely we survive. There wouldnt be a financial 'penalty' to either of us for leaving as we both work and make good livings. In the end, if we do D, I dont think either of us could support this house anyways, it would have to be sold and split up. Though my plan right now is to be as pleasant as possible, give her as much space as possible, and hopefully stay here as long as possible.
