What is reasonable and what is not?

[Startingover2]

I did it!!! Small victory but I did it.

He sent a text saying that he was tired and was going to stay home and relax. Whatever. I now know I am not a priority. I didn't answer as I was at my daughters vball game.

I just got home and he sent one saying I could come over there if I want, but he is tired and didn't want to leave. I was so proud of myself...I sent on back saying "I am stressed and tired and need to shower and relax. Have a good night". The old me would have been running to his house.

Now he seems all worried that I am stressed. I am physically tired of doing all the work in this R, being pregnant and a single mom at the same time.